Each of us is born with a personality that’s uniquely tailored to what God wants us to do with our lives.
Understanding God’s calling and the associated personality gifts he’s given us is not difficult: We find joy and fulfillment in doing what we are gifted in, and we are gifted in what we are called to do. Furthermore, when we use our gifts and fulfill our calling according to God’s will, we feel his pleasure – in addition to our own.
There’s a problem, however, in seeking validation from using our gifts or pursing our calling instead of pleasing God. Instead of being content with God saying “well done, thou good and faithful servant,” we seek legitimacy in who we are, what we do, how others react or in the results of our actions. Such validation comes from and is about us, rather than God.
If you look at Romans 12, there are seven “gifts” that correspond to seven very different personality types. With each of those personality “giftings”, there are different abilities, motivations and validation issues.
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